Where can i take my pregnant girlfriend?

My girlfriend is complaining that she never goes anywhere or does anything now she's pregnant but i don't know where i can take her. She doesn't want to club because she can't drink, she obviously can't do any of the extreme sports we used to do or go to a theme park. We can't even go to a theatre or cinema because she can't sit comfortably for that long. We've heard of spas that offer pregnant massage, and such, but we want to do something as a couple and can't find places that will cater for me as well. This is only an idea, any other ideas for days out would be very welcome. We live in Essex and work in London so we're especially looking for things in those areas.

Where can i take my pregnant girlfriend?classical music

try a nice dinner out or a picnic on a nice day. take her shopping i dont know a women who wouldn't love that

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A picnic on the beach? Or maybe just travel to France, with Ryan Air it's really cheap to go there for a romantic week-end.

You could also go swimming together, not in a special program or anything, but just go to the pool and take it easy. That way both of you could experience it together.
take for a nice candle light dinner... with the food she would love to have.. secondly you both can go for a walk on a beach.. in the evening before the dinner... i think this is a gud think ...

Take her for shopping for the baby - the new member.. you can always plan b4 what you wnt...
have you tired chanmpneys health spa they do the pregnancy thing and i think that they would cater for you as well i heard they are very good they are in london some where but as i live in west midlands i dont know where try yahoo search and type pregnancy spas or something good luck and i think its very nice that you are willing to go out of your way to help her relax and you must be a very loving boyfriend hope everything goes well with the rest of the pregnancy and birth
It's really nice that you're thinking about how to entertain your pregnant girlfriend now that you can't do the things you used to do together!! It doesn't really matter what you do, so long as you make time to do stuff together.

Go shopping - for her / for the baby

Go for picnics now the weather is better

Go out for some really good meals - once the baby comes you won't be going out for a very long time!!

Go to galleries and museums - nice because there's usually lots of places to sit and rest and a cafe for when she gets peckish.

Do some touristy things like going on the London Eye - it's a beautiful view and there's some nice shops and restaurants in the area for before/afterwards.

Get a kite and go kite flying - just an excuse to hold hands and watch the clouds go by...

Take her away for a romantic weekend break.

Try http://www.oeuf.org.uk/index.asp?section... for couples massage!

Also, go out for long walks with her whenever you can. She'll get tired, but it's so good for her and the baby and staying fit will really really help when she's in labour.

Make sure you do stuff with friends as well; it's easy to let your friends slip away when you're not doing the same things you used to before you got pregnant!
You could always hire a personal massage therapist that will come to your house and do it there, the best thing i think would be to ring a couple of the spas around your area and ask if there is anywhere they know that will also cater for the male as well. Failing that why not organise a treat just for her like getting her hair done and getting a manicure and a pedicure. Although you ideally want to do it as a couple why not just spoil her and why she's out make a lovely dinner for her with fresh flowers and i'm sure she will be happy.
TAKE her pony trekking
its really sweet you wanting to please your girlfriend im in the last month of my pregnancy and moan at my fella i dont go out or do anything but as you said its hard cuz cant walk or sit or anything for to long we just go out for meals, shopping and round to friends or invite them round to our house play cards have a laugh they have a beer its not ideal but it is better then just staying in feeling sorry for myself sorry cant be more help but if you find something be sure to post it then i can try it.

good luck
It is important for pregnant women to exercise during pregancy, so how about walking or swimming which is low-impact, moderate intensity exercise, or you could opt for yoga or pilates classes.

Some other ideas - cook or bake your favourite foods together. Make a scrapbook for junior. Decorate the nursery.
Hi, it seems like you already know what you want to do for her, so below aree a few links to health spa for pregnanct women in Essex/London. How about grabbing a DVD and a take out and have a nice cosy night in? Or book a haidresser that come to you and or a beautician that can do her nails, massage etc? Hope the preganacy's healthy and you are blessed with a lovely, warm bundle of joy.

http://www.ineedpampering.com/day-spa-pa...

http://www.urbanpath.com/london/spas/ele...

http://www.babycentre.co.uk/pregnancy/tr...
why dont you just ask her what she feels like doing? that way you dont haveto bother yourself with the hassle of getting it wrong and she gets exactly the kind of day out she wants, by the way this could mean that you find yourself getting massaged by a hairy man from the highest peak of scotland whilst you watch the ballet in the middle of tony and guy whilst getting a perm on your never regions and watching all your man genes slowly drain down the plug hole never to be seen again, other than that, take her to the footy and tell her if she doesnt like it she can go and find some other poor blokes life to run!
take her to the boardwalk in brighton for a weekend getaway
Pregnant women and food - take her for a meal. Perfect. All you can eat is even better, especially if she has cravings - Tesco aisle, pickled onions, marmite and ice cream. ha.

Have fun.
take her bowling, i dunno lolol. Go and sit in the park, visit some art galleries and museums. Go on the London Eye (i went on there when i was 8 months preggers - bit frightening but lots of fun)
Just cook her a lovely romantic meal for the two of you.
she's got the pregnancy whinge!! I had it for a whole week I got sick of the sound of my moaning and shut up.

The weather is getting warmer, arrange a luxury, romantic picnic in hyde/st james park and a days sightseeing around the capital, london eye, tower of london, portobello road.

Just spoil her rotten for the day and then arrange a nights stay in a hotel in the city, surely she can't complain with all that?
just married.......!!!!!!!hmmm...ur situation lil bit diffrent then those other people...
go all out on a romantic meal,it may be one night but it will have a lasting memory throughout the pregnancy. go shopping for something new to wear so its a chance to dress up and feel special.

long walks along beach or somewhere where you can talk is good,walks are good for pregnancy too
Why don't you organise a picnic and take her somewhere relaxing and tranquil where you can lay out a rug (or bring her a comfortable stretch chair).

She would be getting out of the house, able to enjoy the fresh air and outdoors, yet it is not strenuous and she can lay down with a pillow if she wants.

Maybe you could pack some non-alcoholic wine and treats in the basket as well.

Sure she'd appreciate it.
anything to do with being in water is a good choice for pregnant women, it takes the weight off and is so relaxing but if she's anything like a lot of pregnant women (including myself) it 'll be hard persuding her to get into her swimming costume. maybe bowling or treat her to a makeover (hair, nails, make-up). or instead of going out arrange for some friends to come over one night for nibbles and drinks,obviously she doesnt have to drink but she can still have fun... at least when she's in her own home she can do what she wants,whenever she wants (sit, stand , lie down) in later stages of pregnancy you can get very uncomfortable very quickly.

i am 5 months at the moment and we had a get together with friends last friday,they all came to our house,drank,ate,played a fun game of poker and sang on singstar and played buzz,everyone had loads of fun and all for a few quid each.... bargain!
why don't you go to that spa you're talking about! swimming would be great for her and you! you could both have a massage too and then enjoy an evening meal together and drink fruit cocktails! make a weekend of it and she'll love it! great place to relax and just share and enjoy each others company!
Give her a weekend just for her. If she wants you to cook, cook if she wants to go out to eat, go if she wants to shop, shop. It is really hard to plan something nice for a pregnant woman because we get very hard to please. One minute we want one thing and the next minute we want the opposite.
Hiya

yeah it is difficult to find something that a pregnant woman wants to do and it can be difficult trying to please us too lol. swimming or a spa would be a good idea as it can be soothing and relaxing for her. i hope this helps
a meal with a difference take her to a restarant at a race course. i know it sounds weird but i worked at a race course a dogs racecourse. she will get the comfort of sitting down and having a meal whilst watchin a race. and u dont have to bet that much. 50p a time on tote which usually comes to your table or u could make it more fun and bet against each other like if number 1 wins then if the baby a girl her name will be kacie lol it an example

sorry if u dont like it and if you go u want a table next to the window so u have a great view of the track and near a tv to keep a eye on the odds
mothercare is a nice place
It's good to get a lot of exercise. Take her to a park, shopping, or try new places to eat! Look on the net for things in your area that you might not normally do, but are interesting.
What about strolls around nice gardens or art gallery or museums? Picnic at the park? Go hang out at the beach? Go on a ferry cruise?
Take her Llandudno, in wales, to go shopping.

Or just shopping where you're at. It doesn't have to involve drinking or extreme things, you're going to have to sacrifice here, is she not sacrificing her life for you by having your child?
bludyel sounds like your gonna have your work cut out for the next 40 years
Wow.. good luck for u, your brain dead wife, and your baby in the future.. it looks like fun!
dont take her anywhere.she doesnt deserve it the moanie *****