Sunday, December 6, 2009

I have a very changeable friend at work. She keeps mentioning all the different events she has at ni

so obviously in the morning I ask her how it went. For example, she gets tickets to London Fashion Week and I ask her how she manages to go. Rather than tell me how she gets the tickets, she makes cutting replies like, "Well, I just get off at the station and walk down". And on other occasions, I ask her how she manages to get all these weekend hotel freebies and theatre tickets and she never gives me a straight answer. I only ask her because I wish I could get all these tickets like she gets. Why is she like this? She keeps saying that I'm her 'very good friend'.



I have a very changeable friend at work. She keeps mentioning all the different events she has at night?concert tickets



sorry but the girls sounds like a straight faced liar to me, shes definately hiding something,



does she love attention? that could be the reason for lying to you and others



I have a very changeable friend at work. She keeps mentioning all the different events she has at night?theater seating opera theater



It sounds to me like she is trying to make her self be something she is not. She is probably lying. Or maybe she is doing things to get these different things like sleeping around. She doesn't sound like a good friend.
She's lying about something?



Maybe for attention or maybe she is trying to impress you for some reason....ask her out right cos all this suspicion wont do the friendship any good.
she is probably lying to make herself look good to you, she is no friend thats for sure.



Next time pay no interest and see if she brings it up.
Perhaps she's lying. No - id definitely say she was lying...
she's telling porkies...she's doing this to impress people but really she does not go to these events...people who do this are seeking some sort of praise or approval...the next time she says she's going to a posh bash...then just say...ooh i have tickets, i will meet you there....catch her out....i think she may just be telling fibs to earn your praise....call her bluff....and tell her you'll go with her or meet her there next time...i am sure she will find a cover up story to get herself out of it
Not a good friend,does not want you to know her secrets.
i think that she leads a really sad life and the only way she make it a bit exciting is to lie about where she is going and where she has been to make her self look interesting.... give her the boot
blatantly ask to go with her.



if she keeps refusing shes lying!



and if you are such a good mate why hasnt she asked you before now? sounds like a weirdo. or has issues.



everyone tells fibs but some you must be able to prove!



god bless her she mgiht need help!
are you sure she actually goes to the events%26gt; sounds to me like shes lying and thats why she cant give you a straight answer - she has no clue about how to answer you coz shes never been to these places.



next time shes on about having tickets for something ask her would she mind awfully if you tagged along seeing as you are her "very good friend" or call her bluff and tell her you're going to that place too and you'll meet her there - if she gets shook over this you'll know shes lying! xx
Is she telling the truth?
She's lying to you!
It sounds to me like she is lieing to make herself seem interesting to you and gets angry when you question her about things she is doing...



F*ck her off.. get a proper friend... that doesnt lie
if she can't confide in you, then firstly she's not a real friend



secondly, maybe she's secretly ashamed of however she gets the tickets....
She's a liar. She doesn't have any friends, and is totally inadequate as a human being, which is why she has to fabricate this wonderful life. You are just giving her fuel by believing her. Be totally disinterested , and talk to other people at work. Could you not suggest a night out with other colleagues, and not invite her, as her social calender is fully booked, and so much more exciting, that she might find your night out a bore?
I had a "friend" that did this all the time. I then found out it was all crap, and she was so miserable,and jealous, she had to make things up.
Ask her to be more detailed. If she refuses, then she's doing it on purpose, so it's best to just stop asking her how she gets these things. Telling you of what she has done and giving vague answers might be a powertrip for her.

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