How do i get this lady?

My platonic friend stayed over at mine for a few months after I had to bail her out of a bad situation where she used to live, and she has recently moved into her own flat. its only two miles away and before she moved she said she would have more time for me after the move. Unfortunately this has not come to be. she knows darn well I adore here and she told me on one occasion she adored me (admittedly a bit drunk at the time). Have had mixed messages fom her for months but she is rather on the posh side and I am just a working class stage manager (When I am working) Shes very interested in the same things as me theatre films music fun but we are both poor at the moment. is there any hope? We live in London. Positive ideas please?

How do i get this lady?concert venue

Get talking to her is the only way to move forward and don't worry about the posh thing we are all humans!

How do i get this lady?events opera theater

Disfigure your face and sing to her from the roof of a theatre.

It worked once before.
Just be honest with her. Tell her how you feel... and lay it on the line.

Either that or move to America and find a girl that goes wild over guys with British accents!!

*love those* :)
Seriously, if you feel like you're being strung along - knock it on the head now. You obviously can't just be friends because of the way you feel - so forget it. Full stop, end of story - period. Best advice.
just say "hi foxy lady, be mine " it always works
Well... this is going on for a while. She is older than you and have a drink problem. You've helped her out many times before. You've bent back and forwards to be with her. She says jump.. You ask: How high...

By now, you MUST try another tactics. Ignore her for a while, find some other girl to come over when she is about to come to see you. Or pop by chance in a place where you know she is going to be, with some really hot chick. Friends are very supportive to our needs. Surely, you can ask one.

Now, my friend, do it more than once. Otherwise, she may think you are just trying to make her jealous. You MUST get her believing... that maybe ... just maybe she is no longer that essential person in your life anymore and you're moving on. It may stop her treating you like a dog and show you some respect.

You are a wonderful, caring, sensitive person that deserves better and she better recognize it.

My best wishes to you and may it end well or perhaps, someone else will come along and end this tormented life you are living.
Tricky, my first feeling is that isn't in to you but then I realised I know far too little about the situation. Take her along to a few concerts - you must be able to get some discount tickets in the venues you work - and have some fun with her. If she enjoys being with you you've got her hooked. The problem up to this stage is that she might associate you with 'bad times' although you did a lot to get her out of the original situation. If she has decided to move on from those times she is quite likely to dump you along with it (sad but true). On the other hand, if you have some fun with her and she enjoys it, you're showing her that the future could be bright for the two of you together. The money issue is tricky but don't let it get you down. Search for "Free London" on google (or yahoo hehe) and you'll get a lot of funny free alternatively.

e.g. http://www.londonisfree.com/